The bride to be

“ Somebody said that there is a story behind every marriage and so did in mine. But just like any other fairy tale,  mine wedding story was too full of drama, emotions, tears, struggle, fights and some action until my lazy soul mate came for my escape. Lazy ..because it took him really long years to find me. I was just a friendly, full of life kinda girl until my so-called Perfect- age- of- marriage came to a verge. There were days when I felt frustrated answering a simple question “ Shaadi kb kr rhi ho “ Who so ever come in front of me had the same  set of questions “ is someone in your life .. why you said No to that boy” and else is bla.. bla.. bla….” With the passage of years, the thing turned worst and soon my very own personal life turned to a big social issue. But anyhow my parents learned to deal with questions about the delay in my marriage. Many times parents supported me and understood the reasons behind my rejections but other times they just joined the crowd to blame me for that delay in marriage.  Well, this hot topic never went off beat. The walls of my little home witnessed a lot of drama that how any conversation turns to debate about my marriage and then some action. There are some lucky people also witnessed the action scenes where once I broke mug and other time even my cell phone.  Instead of things, I really wanted to break the teeth of those who believed that my marriage is all about their business. All this resulted in decreasing my social image. I started skipping the social gathering limited myself to stay away from that marriage ghost. This resulted in nothing and soon people started demoralizing me more and more.  This delay- marriage- drama was at its best when people started utilizing their convincing skills on me and forced me to say yes to who so ever just because I was too old to get a perfect groom (according to them )… AND they really mean it…. WHO- SO – EVER… But I never ever bowed down to anyone.. I had my stand that I will tie the knot only if I meet a guy with whom my thinking and prospect about life match without considering any social pressure. Yet, another reason why I stayed strong was my deep faith in God. Deep in my heart, I knew that it’s just a matter of time so no need to worry and lose patience at any cost. Rather than to take tensions about age and marriage I  preferred to pay attention to my job and live life normally against all odds. After such an emotional drama of almost 8 years one fine day my turtle soul mate finally reached to me and after that, everything turned perfect. The most awaited day came … I was the beautiful bride, ( as told by everyone)  those who done everything to convince me about marriage now were appreciating about my right decision. There was decoration, music, sweets, relatives, friends and everyone else was happy. After all, It was the MOST AWAITED Marriage happening…
 All I learned is it’s just a matter of time, things change, situation change and so do the people’s opinion. Those who were against me once were sitting beside me and enjoying the marriage. I never gave importance to unnecessary advice and people’s view about my life because whatever happened in your life either it's good or bad .. Kuch to log khenge..